Mercury Retrograde, 10/28-11/17

I’m sorry to have to report that another Mercury Retrograde is upon us. I know, I know, it feels like Mercury was just retrograde, lol. And technically, it was. Unfortunately for us, Mercury goes Retrograde once every three months, for about three weeks. This one is set to last through November 17th. Things will probably be a bit hectic and frustrating for the next three weeks. Just take a deep breath and blame it on the Retrograde…

Those of you that know what I’m talking about, know what I’m talking about. Mercury retrograde tends to cause malfunctions and miscommunications of epic proportions. All things that fall under Mercury’s rule (communication, transportation, travel, technology/electronics) start to short-circuit and break down. Computers crash, car trouble, we lose things, miss our plane/train/bus, have terrible arguments with our loved ones — feel free to blame it all on Mercury Retrograde. Don’t make any major decisions or purchase while Mercury is Retro — when it goes direct, chances are you will second-guess your decision. Information is just too garbled right now. They say the amount of time Mercury spends in retrograde motion corresponds to the amount of time human beings spend asleep. Mercury Retro FORCES us to slow down, even though we’re socialized to “go go go, faster faster.” The best use of a retrograde period is to sync up with the energies… Draw inward, engage in introspection. This is not the time to barrel forward with new initiations, but rather to Review, Reflect, Refine, Reorganize, Reevaluate, etc. In general, anything with a “re” at the beginning of it is a suitable Retrograde activity.

I like to brave the Retrogrades by barricading myself in my house and not talking to anybody… Kidding. 🙂 I do try to use them productively. I’ve decided this Retrograde will be spent revising this latest draft of WHEN LOVE, reconnecting with old friends (yay!), revisiting some relationship issues with my significant other, and revaluating my short and long-term publishing goals. The goals timeline has to be completely reworked people… Oooh, I kinda like the idea of a Mercury Retro to-do list, lol.

REVIEW-Donna Hill's If I Could

So I finished another book… Unfortunately not one of the ones I’m writing, lol, though I do think its damn impressive I can find any time at all to read for pleasure with all the hecticness of life… I firmly believe that reading is an essential part of this ‘business’. Not just for enhancing professional karma by supporting other authors, but because reading the work of Great authors helps you become a better writer. Heck, even reading terrible authors is useful in that it can provide a timely ego boost 😉 And staying abreast of trends and studying the competition is always a good idea.

I selected If I Could by Donna Hill for several reasons. 1) the book was published by the publisher that is currently reviewing my manuscript 2) Donna Hill is a national bestselling author with over 50 books under her belt – she obviously knows what she’s doing, and 3) it’s in the same tone/style/genre as mine. It was good research material on several levels.

Well, I really enjoyed it. It was a thoughtful novel – a quick read, but didn’t give the issues addressed in the book superficial treatment. It follows three women through life, exploring the paths they took, the choices they made, and the consequences of their actions. They deal with the aftermath of divorce, adultery, emotional abuse, spousal neglect, codependence — all kinds of things that most people can relate to on some level. All the characters, even when doing bad things, retained their humanity, and I really felt for each and every one of them. As a writer, who knows the challenge of creating likable, dynamic, three-dimensional characters, I appreciate Donna Hill’s skill. This was definitely money well spent. I also find myself wondering if there’s a sequel, cause I’ll be damned if I’m not wondering what ended up happening to Parker in California, lol. I will definitely be purchasing and reading another Donna Hill novel (probably Getting Hers cause I just love the cover 🙂

Now the coolest thing about finishing a book is that I get to start another one 🙂 I can’t even tell you how many books I’ve bought in the past year, sitting untouched on my bookshelf, that I am just aching to read. I was eager to resume Eric Jerome Dickey’s Chasing Destiny, which I had to abandon when I left for my road trip because I was having too much fun to read. 😉 But then I realized Chasing Destiny is written in the first person… I find that if I read first person narrative while trying to write in the 3rd person, I get my voices all jumbled in my head. Totally counterproductive. So that was disappointing. BUT, what this means is that I’m now freed up to read the next book down on my list, Lolita Files’ sex. lies. murder. fame.. which has just been getting rave reviews all over the damn place. This book is Hot and I finally get to find out why 🙂 Don’t worry, I promise to post a full review when I finish it 🙂

REVIEW-Donna Hill’s If I Could

So I finished another book… Unfortunately not one of the ones I’m writing, lol, though I do think its damn impressive I can find any time at all to read for pleasure with all the hecticness of life… I firmly believe that reading is an essential part of this ‘business’. Not just for enhancing professional karma by supporting other authors, but because reading the work of Great authors helps you become a better writer. Heck, even reading terrible authors is useful in that it can provide a timely ego boost 😉 And staying abreast of trends and studying the competition is always a good idea.

I selected If I Could by Donna Hill for several reasons. 1) the book was published by the publisher that is currently reviewing my manuscript 2) Donna Hill is a national bestselling author with over 50 books under her belt – she obviously knows what she’s doing, and 3) it’s in the same tone/style/genre as mine. It was good research material on several levels.

Well, I really enjoyed it. It was a thoughtful novel – a quick read, but didn’t give the issues addressed in the book superficial treatment. It follows three women through life, exploring the paths they took, the choices they made, and the consequences of their actions. They deal with the aftermath of divorce, adultery, emotional abuse, spousal neglect, codependence — all kinds of things that most people can relate to on some level. All the characters, even when doing bad things, retained their humanity, and I really felt for each and every one of them. As a writer, who knows the challenge of creating likable, dynamic, three-dimensional characters, I appreciate Donna Hill’s skill. This was definitely money well spent. I also find myself wondering if there’s a sequel, cause I’ll be damned if I’m not wondering what ended up happening to Parker in California, lol. I will definitely be purchasing and reading another Donna Hill novel (probably Getting Hers cause I just love the cover 🙂

Now the coolest thing about finishing a book is that I get to start another one 🙂 I can’t even tell you how many books I’ve bought in the past year, sitting untouched on my bookshelf, that I am just aching to read. I was eager to resume Eric Jerome Dickey’s Chasing Destiny, which I had to abandon when I left for my road trip because I was having too much fun to read. 😉 But then I realized Chasing Destiny is written in the first person… I find that if I read first person narrative while trying to write in the 3rd person, I get my voices all jumbled in my head. Totally counterproductive. So that was disappointing. BUT, what this means is that I’m now freed up to read the next book down on my list, Lolita Files’ sex. lies. murder. fame.. which has just been getting rave reviews all over the damn place. This book is Hot and I finally get to find out why 🙂 Don’t worry, I promise to post a full review when I finish it 🙂

Comic Relief

Hey Everyone… I know there haven’t been many updates lately… Rest assured I am still alive and well, just fully engrossed in my writing. Progress on WHEN LOVE ISN’T ENOUGH is steady, and I’m rapidly approaching the halfway point! Yay! My new goal is to finish this novel by Christmas – which I truly believe is within the realm of the possible. As long as I continue to stay disciplined and focused.

I did run across a few funny jokes this week though that I thought I’d share for all my single friends 🙂 I can’t take credit for writing them, but I can definitely relate 🙂

*THE WORLD’S SHORTEST FAIRYTALE*

Once upon a time, a girl asked a guy, “Will you marry me? The guy said, “No” and the girl lived happily ever after and went shopping, drank martinis, always had a clean house, never had to cook, remained skinny, and was never farted on.

The End

LOL! And I love this little quote–

“Turns out my knight-in-shining armor was just a loser in aluminum foil…”

I just about died laughing when I read that… Cause it is so true – there are far too many boys out there masquerading as men…

Marc Broussard ROCKS

Well I’ve found myself another favorite artist… *swoon* I am in love with Marc Broussard.

I was first exposed to Marc Broussard when VH1 Country started playing the video for “Home” in heavy rotation. Now Marc is not a country artist, but he is a Louisiana boy, so he gets some country love. I just have to thank VH1 for hooking it up because I am so happy to have been exposed to this talented artist.

I don’t know what is wrong with me — I seem to have this bizarre musical/racial inversion fixation. For example, I love white boys who rap, Black cowboys, and Black rockers (Mista D, Lenny Kravitz). Marc Broussard fits right in with my obsession — he’s a white guy doing this bluesy-soul thing that is just HOT. I tend to favor Southern things because I am in love with the South, and Broussard reminds me of why… He’s soulful, he’s sincere, and he’s as deep as he is smooth. He doesn’t just play the music, he creates it, and then sends it out to touch and move others.

Carencro is one of my favorite CDs EVER–there is not one song on there that I don’t like. Because he’s still “up and coming,” his gigs tend to be regional, and he doesn’t make it out to the West Coast very often. 🙁 I was SO excited when I learned he’d be playing in Cali this month.

Getting to the point, on Wednesday night I went up to the City to see his show at the Independent. AWESOME AWESOME AWESOME. That boy has some serious soul and can play the hell out of a guitar. It was an intimate venue, and onstage it was just Marc, his bass player and the drummer, but they made the most beautiful music. The groove and the bass moved my body — I had the Best time dancing the night away! And falling in love. Live music freakin’ rocks.

I can only pray that he comes back to California more often… Cause this girl is freakin’ hooked. Watch out Tim and Keith! 😉

Check out this fabulous artist!
Marc Broussard’s Official Website
Marc Broussard on Myspace

Getting My Write On…

So this past weekend me and my writer buddy Liz (who I met at the Prepare to PItch! Conference last May) went to a writing workshop in San Jose on “How to Write Luminous Dialogue”. It was a day-long workshop where I picked up a lot of helpful pointers on character development and dialogue. It also went a long way towards rekindling my author flame, which I’ll admit goes out from time to time as life whirls and swirls around me.

The past few weeks, I’ve definitely been back on the ball where my writing is concerned. I’m working on WHEN LOVE ISN’T ENOUGH for at least two hours every day, and am fully engaged with the project again after being away for so long. I set some short and long-term goals, which I am proud to report I’m meeting 🙂 I’m networking and plotting my next steps towards my eventual publication. And now, thanks to this dialogue workshop, I am taking steps to hone my craft and improve the quality of my writing. Everything is syncing up quite nicely over here.

Writer events are great because they always remind you of all the things you tend to forget when you’re getting beat down by the business, lol. The most important thing being – if you want to make a living as a writer, you have to be serious about it and treat it like any other job. You have to put in the time. You have to set (and meet) deadlines. You have to be persistent and professional. And you can never, ever give up. Well it’s not like I was fixin’ to give up, but I definitely needed a kick in the pants to get my ass into the next gear. And now it’s full speed ahead baby…